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44. I am me

I see my self-esteem and confidence disappearing rapidly these days.

I came back to this topic haha

And now it's winter break and before the new semester starts, so I can compare myself to the kids even more.

I thought that my self-esteem might get lower.

Why is it that our self-esteem becomes so low?

that's right,

By comparing yourself to others

Of course, if you compare it to a friendly competition, with the same conditions and with people working together as people.

I hope it helped you develop yourself.

to be honest

Comparing yourself or adults

It's comparing other people's 'strengths' with my 'weaknesses'.

then

We are fools who are worse than them

The moment we realize it

Not only will your self-esteem drop, but you may even lose your sense of self.

Honestly, I tend to accept that positively.

If he's good at something, I'm good at something too.

If there's something I can't do, then there's definitely something he can't do too.

Humans are creatures with both strengths and weaknesses.

If not, then he's either not human or he's just living in empty boasts.

and

In the first place, comparing yourself to other people

Isn't that a very strange measure?

Even when comparing with friends...

Your relationship with that friend might get worse.

Adults make that bad comparison as easily as eating.

Let's at least take care of ourselves

Whether you compare me to him or to this guy

Because you are just you

Because you are a person who doesn't need comparison just because you are.

Just work hard at what you want to do.

'Comparison' is something that adults work hard at.

Good night today too ~

Today is ~

"Never compare yourself to others again."

(I didn't know and made it so that only I could see itㅠㅠㅠㅠI'm sorryㅠㅠ)