[Saddam] I'm hesitating alone

#25 Sometimes when I think of something I regret...

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The commonality between the works I wrote, *Daddy-Long-Legs* and *Dear My Friend*, is that they are stories about how to take responsibility for one's own life.


While in Daddy-Long-Legs he actively carved out his own life, in Dear My Friend I portrayed a character who responded passively with regret and self-blame.


I think feeling regret or guilt when you do something wrong in life is one way of taking responsibility for it. If you use those emotions to avoid repeating the same behavior,


Because that is also positive for the person involved...


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Of course, excessive regret or guilt can make me run away when the opportunity to make amends myself arises, just like Taesik in Dear My Friend.


Running away can be seen as a situation where regret or guilt is excessive. So, there are various psychological methods to check if my thoughts are adaptive, but let's leave that aside for now.butexplain) do...


Anyway, in that sense, I wanted to say that emotions like regret or guilt also have meaning and value.. Hahaha.


So... even if I regret it and feel guilty,


.are you okay...

Because those emotions will help me try to become a better version of myself.

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P.S- I wonder why I did that back then.When you feel regret and distress
How do you all do it...?