I will be your support when times are tough - (Comforting message

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Is it hard?

"I'm having a hard time too" "There are more people having a harder time than you" Who doesn't know that? Many people already know.

So, if I say something like, "I'm having a hard time, please say something comforting," will they just say, "Oh, I see," and move on?

No. We shouldn't say, "Can't you even handle that?" when someone is having a hard time.

I need to say a little word of comfort

I'm sorry you found out now | Let's try a little harder | These words really give us strength.

If that's empathy, then yes, it must be really hard. | You persevered even though it was hard. | These words will give you greater strength.

But if we start cursing and blaming others for the hardships, it's just the beginning.

"barcode"

You all know it, right? Barcodes.

Yes, it's self-harm. Self-harm.

But is self-harm really that bad? Why is it bad?

"It's the same as asking someone else to pay attention to you."

Is that really true? This is how we judged self-harm.

Bad things / indulgences / idiots / things you shouldn't do

Why did you decide this?

Self-harm is just our voice

"I'm having a hard time, so please understand." This is how you convey self-harm to people in a voice.

But why are you cursing at me? You don't even know how hard it is for me.

Self-harm is something I judged only by my 'voice', so why should I necessarily curse and criticize it?

No, we can't do anything about what he decided, whether it's cursing or hitting him.

Instead, if you change your mind and have empathy, the situation will change.

Maybe I could stop self-harming, or maybe I could stop crying?

During that time, someone came along who understood how hard I was going through.

Please give me a word

And "Thank you"

Let's cheer up a little. We've had a hard time up until now, but we've held on.

You can do it right now

"Erase all the sad memories, hold my hand and smile."

We are all the same

Things that are hard, things that are painful, things that make you want to cry

and

We will all walk on a flower path

There will be days as beautiful as spring

Someone must have a magic shop just for me

It could be someone's Best 1.

So let's give it our strength

"I want to lean on someone, but instead, I can be their support."